Still, I guess I've always been afraid I'd fail....scratch that, I was always afraid that it wouldn't be the path God wants me on. (yes, I'm a Christian, although not a very good one. Quick note, you will NEVER hear me preaching from this blog. Of all the people in this world, I'm the last who should do that!!!!)
But yes, that has been my fear, especially as I've gotten older. I made bad decisions when I was 21 that threw my life on a totally random course, missed a chance a real happiness that I still wonder about at times, and ever since then I've kinda drifted through life. Oh sure, I'd always hide it with a great mask and soaring rhetoric about how I'd get it all turned around.....
Well, there are two quotes that have always stuck with me. I'd like to say I tried to live by them, but I can't, but I am going to do my best to now. One was from End of Evangelion (which is a rather crazy but masterpiece of an anime film.....don't judge me!) where one of the characters, Misato, tries to shake the series main character, Shinji, into action. His friend was being killed, their base was being over-run, and he was the only one who could do anything about it. Instead, Shinji refused to do anything, having been broken by events in the series that preceeded the movie (Neon Genesis Evangelion). In a last ditch effort, Misato grabs Shinji and screams at him,
"SNAP OUT OF IT! Giving up halfway is worse than never trying at all!!"
Its so true. However, its so easy to give up, isn't it? I faced it in Basic Training, where almost halfway through I'd given anything to get out of there. You have no idea....those who have been through it can attest, it taxes you mentally more than physically, but it tears you apart. Every time I do a PT test it crawls in my mind, or even something as simple as Math hw.
Do you ever have that problem? I'm sure we've all faced something that we wish we hadn't, and it would be so easy to curl up in a little ball and wish the world away. I was in that place again today, after something (again) knocked me on my butt just when I started to get the ball rolling again. But you know what, the world didn't go away for me, and I bet it never has for you. (if it did, let me know how!!!)
Teddy Rosevelt said the second quote, one I stumbled upon tonight:
"In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing."
Why is my life in the shambles its in? Because I did nothing. I curled up on my couch instead of going to work, I decided to hide from the monsters outside by not going to class, I refuse to cultivate friendships because I don't want to get hurt, so I isolate myself.
Well, at least thats what I did.
So.....I am in the process tonight of setting 3 major goals for the rest of 2010, and then several minor goals. These goals will the quantifiable (the big word for the night! Don't ask me what it means, just sounds fancy!!! :) and be definitive. It will not be "I may" or "I hope", its going to be "I will." I'll share them when I'm done.
NOW....here comes another question, something I think I'll touch on my next blog- how to bring that in harmony with what God wants. (yeah, I'm going there) Its been my biggest fear: what if I set my life to pursue something, only to find out when its too late that it wasn't what I was suppose to do, and I missed out on so many gifts and moments of happiness? What if I waste my life?
Stay tuned!